{"id":64303,"date":"2022-10-14T11:35:55","date_gmt":"2022-10-14T04:35:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ben.com.vn\/tin-tuc\/?p=64303"},"modified":"2022-10-14T11:35:55","modified_gmt":"2022-10-14T04:35:55","slug":"tinh-yeu-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ben.com.vn\/tin-tuc\/tinh-yeu-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u1eeb c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u00e1t, b\u00e0i th\u01a1 cho \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 phim \u1ea3nh th\u00ec ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1c t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt qua c\u00e1c th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec1u cho th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1eeb th\u1eddi c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3 kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o theo th\u1eddi gian. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a “t\u00ecnh y\u00eau” n\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

1. Th\u00edch, y\u00eau hay “\u0111ang y\u00eau”<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc trong h\u01a1n 50 n\u0103m qua \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa th\u00edch ai \u0111\u00f3, y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 “y\u00eau”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed5 \u00edch. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u1eefi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ta s\u1ebd t\u1ecf ra th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\"love\"<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, ta s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c quan t\u00e2m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

“Y\u00eau” bao g\u1ed3m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. Tuy nhi\u00ean nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau.<\/p>\n

2. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh<\/h2>\n

T\u00ccnh l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n bao g\u1ed3m 2 lo\u1ea1i: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi hay c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn 2 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau cu\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7<\/strong>t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng coi l\u00e0 “\u0111ang y\u00eau”. N\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n \u1edf trong v\u00f2ng tay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"T\u00ecnh<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh<\/strong> mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e3n m\u1ea1ng.<\/p>\n

3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o theo th\u1eddi gian?<\/h2>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n theo th\u1eddi gian th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cao nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n trong su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.\u00a0C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nhau cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 nhau v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.\u00a0C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t\u00a0ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u00a0.\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng ch\u00e1y gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

\"t\u00ecnh<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c nhau b\u00e1o c\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng kho\u1ea3ng 20-40% c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n suy tho\u00e1i n\u00e0y.\u00a0\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m, th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 suy tho\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1ea5t trong\u00a0th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 hai.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

4. L\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u1eef cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau.\u00a0T\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean nhau \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0\u00a0tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

Kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i kh\u00e1c.\u00a0Khi con c\u00e1i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a m\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb sinh h\u1ecdc.\u00a0C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u\u00a0sinh l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7n kinh v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong c\u01a1n say \u0111\u1eafm c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t gia t\u0103ng \u1edf c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng n\u00e3o li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c\u00a0v\u00f9ng n\u00e3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t b\u1edfi cocaine.\u00a0Nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 oxytocin<\/a>, vasopressin v\u00e0 dopamine, t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\"k\u00edch<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng\u00a0v\u00f9ng n\u00e3o<\/a>\u00a0n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t khi ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8.\u00a0Nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Hy v\u1ecdng sau khi tham kh\u1ea3o b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Xin ch\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u1eb9n g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i!<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean t\u1ea1i Ben Computer \u0111ang c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0u \u0111\u00e3i nh\u00e2n d\u1ecbp 20-10 d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em nh\u00e9!\u00a0 Xem ngay t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y!<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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